God Gave Me You

 

For all the times I felt cheated, I complained
You know how I love to complain
For all the wrongs I repeated, though I was to blame
I still cursed that rain
I didn't have a prayer, didn't have a clue
Then out of the blue

God gave me you to show me what's real
There's more to life than just how I feel
And all that I'm worth is right before my eyes
And all that I live for though I didn't know why
Now I do, 'cause God gave me you

For all the times I wore my self pity like a favorite shirt
All wrapped up in that hurt
For every glass I saw, I saw half empty
Now it overflows like a river through my soul
From every doubt I had, I'm finally free
I truly believe

God gave me you to show me what's real
There's more to life than just how I feel
And all that I'm worth is right before my eyes
And all that I live for though I didn't know why
Now I do, 'cause God gave me you

In your arms I'm someone new
With ever tender kiss from you
Oh must confess
I've been blessed

God gave me you to show me what's real
There's more to life than just how I feel
And all that I'm worth is right before my eyes
And all that I live for though I didn't know why (didn't know why)
Now I do (I finally do), 'cause God gave me you (God gave me You)

sa musmos pa mi :)

God gave me you ♥

I Love You

Take a closer look: :)

Aaaah! These words can take away the stress and boredom. I'm blessed I have him to make my day. The first thought that comes to mind when I wake up. The last thing in my mind before I sleep. I so love this person. It must be love, I say.
It's through him I learn to be more patient, understanding, forgiving, caring and loving. It's with him I feel secured. It's with him I feel like a child. It's with him I feel like a queen. Haaaaz..
I thank him for everything. But I thank God above all, for giving me the kindest and fragile person I've known.
I love you too! ♥

*Haha. Isn't is gross? Lol*

Well, whatever happens. I just pray we'll stay at each other's side to protect and cherish what we have now.

Communication

The Most Important Thing In Your Relationship

Yes - this topic is actually very unique to each relationship, and sweeping generalizations do not apply. However, there can be no doubt thatcommunication between a man and a woman, is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. If it is not the most important thing in your relationship, maybe it should be.

Being in a long-term relationship is like learning how to drive an automobile -- you won't learn the best tactics for getting from point A to point B, until you jump out there and actually start doing it. In a relationship, this analogy applies to not only effective communication, but also compatibility, trust, making sacrifices, and all other aspects of being in a meaningful relationship.

Unfortunately, there isn't an owner's manual to help guide you through the time you'll spend with a significant other. In fact, that time is unique to your relationship. It has never been chronicled by two persons before, and will not be matched by any two persons later. We are all creating an unparalleled historical marker during our relationships, so we should do our best to leave an indelible mark.

With that, we've listed a number of key facts men must know when it comes to effective relationship communication:

Learn To Listen
Probably the most important (and positive) thing you can do while communicating, is learning how to listen to your mate. Men are notorious for mentally plotting their verbal comeback when they should be listening. This creates communication distance where one person won't comprehend what is being said since they are not truly listening.

• To better concentrate on listening, be sure to look directly at your mate. If possible, turn your body towards her and try to place other thoughts aside.
• Use positive body language to show that you are listening. Give a nod or two, and say words of agreement like, "Yes", or "I understand".
• To show that you've been listening, repeat some of the things she's said by using her words to ask for clarification. This shows that you are paying attention and understand the subject matter.

Develop A Talking Style
Some people have problems communicating as a result of their own voice tones. This may seem trivial, but it's true. If your speech patterns are received as condescending or negative, it is very likely that you will have a harder time getting your mate to listen.Conversely, a jovial or excessively playful tone, will make it difficult for your mate to take you seriously during those important conversations. For good measure, practice using different voice tones when engaged in specific dialogues:

• Emotional or serious conversations should be met with compassionate and serious sounding tones. One of the best ways to show your mate that you're listening, is to reflect the tone of the conversation in your voice.
• If your mate is speaking in general terms, or not really talking about anything in particular, using your keen problem-solving skills in your responses is be unecessary. Men are often accused of seeking a quick-fix to a problem that the woman never wanted resolved. More time than not, she only wanted someone to listen.

Once you know the type of conversation you're in, you can better develop your talking style.

Be Courteous
When all else fails during your conversations (and you will have many!), be sure to remain cognizant of your partners' needs:

• Don't interrupt. Interrupting is probably the most common grievance given by those experiencing communication disconnect in their relationships. When your mate is interrupted, she will feel unheard. A good strategy to follow, is to learn how to recognize your partner's signals for conversation shift. During your conversations, she may slow down when attempting to end her portion of the dialogue -- or she may attempt to pass control to you by asking a question.
• Talk about something other than yourself. Unless the conversation is specifically about you, try not to steer it into a, "woe is me", or a "I had the same problem" type of conversation. Doing so will give the appearance that you've already listened to your share of information from her, and now you're no longer interested in what she has to say.
• Break the silence. No woman likes talking to a brick wall. Especially when she expects the wall to listen and respond on occasion. As outlined in the previous step, Learn To Listen, acknowledge her words with positive body language and affirmative words.

Don't forget that effective communication with your mate is crucial to the growth and success of your relationship. Without it, your partner is likely to feel lost, disconnected, and wishing she had someone to talk to.



By Mybrotha.COM Staff Writer

Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman

   

Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman?

To really love a woman
To understand her - you gotta know her deep inside
Hear every thought - see every dream
N' give her wings - if she wants to fly
Then when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her arms
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman then tell her
that she's really wanted
When you love a woman then tell her that she's the one
'cause she needs somebody to tell her
that it's gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
- really really ever loved a woman?

To really love a woman
Let her hold you -
till you know how she needs to be touched
You've gotta breathe her - really taste her
Till you can feel her in your blood
N' when you can see your unborn children in her eyes
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman
then tell her that she's really wanted
When you love a woman then tell her that she's the one
'cause she needs somebody to tell her
that you'll always be together
So tell me have you ever really -
really really ever loved a woman?

You got to give her some faith - hold her tight
A little tenderness - you gotta treat her right
She will be there for you, takin' good care of you
Ya really gotta love your woman...

Then when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her arms
You know you really love a woman
When you love a woman you tell her
that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
she needs somebody to tell her
that it's gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really
- really really ever loved a woman?

Just tell me have you ever really,
really, really, ever loved a woman? You got to tell me
Just tell me have you ever really,
really, really, ever loved a woman?

True Love

We are so different in many ways.

He laughs so hard, I laugh gently.

He talks so fast, I talk so slow.

He's so friendly, I only await people to come to me.

I show him how much I care, He doesn't.

I always tell him "I love you", He seldom does.

When I talk a lot, He keeps his mouth shut.

He has his practice, I got mine too.

He believes these and that, Well I don't.

But no matter how different we are, we still complement.

We understand each other's differences and try to cope up with things which we weren't used to.

I guess this is what True Love means. Understanding and accepting things which we cannot change and love them still.

On our 6th month

January 22.

It's my first time to celebrate a 6th monthsary with a "real bf" - considering the distance. :)

I went to the pad. I surprised him. We had a candle-lit snack. I gave him my stuff - I made hours before I went to see him. It was so awesome seeing him teary-eyed. I didn't expect it. At first, I was hesitant to do but I don't want to spoil the day. It was not just an ordinary day - twas half a year of celebrating love. eeet! ♥♥♥

Here are some pics of them:

 

Headed to SM after an hour, I think. Played at the arcade - House of the Dead, Basketball and Street Fighter Games and he even sang a song. Then ate after a tiring afternoon yet a happy one. Haha

Looking forward to more days, months, years to be with him.. ♥

And oh! I so love these pics... :)

I so love being with him... :)

You've Got A Way

You've got a way with me
Somehow you got me to believe
In everything that I could be
I've gotta say-you really got a way
You've got a way it seems
You gave me faith to find my dreams
You'll never know just what that means
Can't you see... you got a way with me

It's in the way you want me

It's in the way you hold me
The way you show me just what love's made of
It's in the way we make love

You've got a way with words
You get me smiling even when it hurts

There's no way to measure what your love is worth
I can't believe the way you get through to me

It's in the way you want me
It's in the way you hold me
The way you show me just what love's made of
It's in the way we make love

Oh, how I adore you
Like no one before you
I love you just the way you are

It's in the way you want me
It's in the way you hold me
The way you show me just what love's made of
It's in the way we make love

It's just the way you are