i so love you

there is nothing i can say now...
it's just...
i love you.

Lover's Quarrel

I don’t know why it hurts. All I know is it really hurts. It’s an unbearable pain, it’s a pain inside. Haay! It’s been days I’m experiencing this(I do have an idea but I’m not yet certain). Last night, we were out for dinner when it showed aggression again. Huhu. I missed the food ― the food that I’ve been craving for. Haha. Anyway, my love and I had a petty quarrel regarding this. Here’s an excerpt from our conversation last night.

She: madto mi hospital, aw

He: magunsa mo?

She: I can not this.

He: naunsa ka?

She: sakiiiit keu akong tiyan.

……..

She: dili man maluoy.

He: kelangan ba kaluy-an ang buang kasturya?

She: cge nlng ui. Sa lain na lang ko mangita..kana mustorya sa buang.

………

(wala nay text)

I so miss him. Haha. Funny! Grrrr… He doesn’t seem to care but I know deep inside he missed me too. Tsk

Stages Of Love

5 Stages Of Love

by Ruth D. Kerce

What are the stages of love? Love develops between two partners in several different levels. For love to endure, each level is important.

 

Stage 1. ATTRACTION - a positive response to a person beyond friendship. This can further be broken down into two areas: (a) physical attraction & (b) emotional attraction.

a. Physical Attraction - happens when your body reacts to another person. Heart rate increases; temperature rises, palms get sweaty; stomach flutters; throat tightens; etc. This is the most superficial of "loves" on one level, but one of the most powerful on another. It represents the first contact.

b. Emotional Attraction - develops next if the circumstances are right. After being drawn to a person physically, you then begin to converse. If you find you have things in common -- hobbies, ideologies, career, education, or some other common ground -- then an emotional attraction starts to form.

An emotional attraction can also occur even when a physical attraction does not. And in this case, the bond may even be stronger between the two who connect, since no preconceived notions based on physical appearance has occurred.

Stage 2. ROMANCE - essentially an act of trying to influence or gain favor of another by lavishing attention or gifts upon them. There are two type of romance: (a) selfish romance & (b) selfless romance.

  (a) Selfish Romance - occurs when you do romantic acts solely for the purpose of gaining something for        yourself -- like to get gifts, to impress someone else, or even simply for sexual favors whether your partner is interested or not. 

(b) Selfless Romance - occurs when you do romantic acts for the enjoyment and pleasure of your partner. You receive your enjoyment and pleasure through their happiness.

Selfish romance (& love) will quickly die out. Selfless romance (& love) will endure. Because romance is an "act," many couples who have been together a long time take it for granted. With a conscious effort, it can be rekindled.

Stage 3. PASSION - a desire for another person, which has grown to an intensity that can't be ignored. This is often where an emotional relationship turns into a physical relationship. The passion stage is very important. It's a plateau.

From here, the relationship will fork into two roads, and the couple must decide which path to take. The relationship will either burn itself out or will move onto the next stage.

Stage 4. INTIMACY - a close association with another person of the deepest nature. You share you thoughts, your feelings, your dreams. In true intimacy, there is nothing that you cannot tell this person (though we often hesitate because of our own unfounded fears).

Intimacy is not total in one swoop. It is a developing process, which never ends. If you can't establish intimacy with your partner, your relationship may work for a while, but is unlikely to endure throughout the years.

Stage 5. COMMITMENT - a pledge to remain true to your mate throughout good and bad times. Commitment is easy when times are good. Commitment can be extremely difficult when times are bad. Learn to ride out the bad times.

If you've made it this far, why give up? Listen to each other, be willing to compromise, and remember why you got together in the first place.

 Love is worth the effort ...

Cali Ice

I wasn’t feeling well then that’s why I decided not to let him drop by but he insisted. Fine! He went there, I wanna see him also. It was late at night when he went to my place. I told him I can only accommodate him till 10pm but due to some circumstances we had to leave the place at that point. It was unfortunate that some kinda fishy thing has erupted. I hate him that night. I understand that he was annoyed by the landlord too but he shouldn’t act that way. He was too arrogant that I could not take it. The nerve! Grrr. I was embarrassed, too. I didn’t know what to do but cry. I didn’t understand what I have inside until I decided to take a bit of ‘shot’. Whew!

Inaamin Ko

kumusta ka na?

Sana ikaw ay laging masaya

Kasamang mga kaibigan mo

Pakinggan mo ang sasabihin ko

Aaminin ko

Sa lahat ng taong nandito

Aaminin ko

Ikaw pa rin ang hinahanap ko

Tanda mo pa ba

Mga panahong tayo ay laging magkasama

Puno ng ligaya

Di ko naisip na bigla na lang nawala

Aaminin ko

Sa lahat ng taong nandito

Aaminin ko

Ikaw pa rin ang hinahanap ko

Aaminin ko

Sa lahat ng taong nandito

Aaminin ko

I'll Stay In Love With You

Time has passed, days gone by, and seasons may change but I’ll stay in love with you. We went through a lot of trials, through thick and thin we stayed together.

  Despite the differences, we still managed to cope up and understand each other.

Some may not understand the tightness of the bond we have but I don’t care as long as you’re with me.
Nothing compares to the patience and love you have for me. This is enough for me not to let go of you.

It may sound stupid but this means my everything to me.

I'll Forever Stay In Love With You

Freezin' Inside

Whew! It’s freezin’ cold in here. Grr! I hate this feeling. Am I sick or what? I asked my seatmate and yet only me who’s experiencing this cold feeling. I don’t know if this is the aftermath of what I’ve done. Yeah! sounds crazy but I think this is really is it(based on hearsay). Anyway, I would like to thank all the factors, elements and everything which contributed to that ‘great yet stupid night’. 

To alleviate the ‘cold feeling’ I felt at this moment, I got some cup of coffee. 

Whoa! At least, for me to stay calm(it’s damn that I could not continue working). 

My First Post

This is actually my first post. This is gonna be between you and me only. LOL
This is where I wanna post everything I wanna say, everything I wanna express.
This is where my journey begins..so come away with me! Please bear with me..